As I mentioned in my last blog post, I am really excited about being posted to Geneva. I’ve been there twice as a tourist, and it’s gorgeous! Here are some of the things that have been swirling around in my head since receiving the news.
We Used to Be Neighbors
Twenty-five years ago, I lived about a two-hour drive across the border in France for a year for study abroad. I remember doing a short weekend girls’ trip to Geneva with three fellow students that I’ve since lost touch with. But I remember the lake and strolling along the boulevard at night eating roasted chestnuts in the cool weather. I also visited again for a day while on a family vacation with my mom and step-dad in France in 2002.
Like many cities with Foreign Service housing, you have two options: apartments downtown or houses in the suburbs. It would be amazing to finally have a house again with a yard for the dog. But it increases the commute, which increases the need for child care. It’s also an unfurnished post, so I can take my current furniture, but I don’t love it and was hoping to get rid of most of it when we left DC. If we get a bigger house, I’ll also have to buy more stuff to cover the essentials…like beds in the guest room for visitors!
…is exorbitantly expensive in Geneva. From what I’ve read, the going rate for a babysitter is about 20-30 USD per hour. Not that we have one, but they also have extremely strict regulations on importing nannies, and you have to pay for local health insurance, etc. So a live-in nanny costs about $2,500 a month, and a nanny that doesn’t live with you gets paid about $3,000, and there are long waiting lists.
Another option is to hire an au pair. Au pair’s live with you and are only allowed to work a maximum of 30 hours a week (compared to 45 in the US), while they take a language course…half of which you are required to pay for. They also need insurance and a salary, all of which comes out to over $2,000 per month. Depending on how much overtime I work, hiring someone to be home when A gets there after school might be a necessity. So I’d basically be trading DC rent for child care expenses, which is kind of a bummer. But if our lives cost the same in both places, at least the quality of living will be much improved in Geneva. 🙂
Housing and childcare might also depend on what school he gets into. There are four English-speaking international schools in Geneva, and one of them is right across the street from the mission. So A could essentially walk over when he’s done, sit somewhere quietly, and do his homework. Granted, that’s not really ideal (if even possible). But since they are all private, for-profit schools, they are not required by law to make any accommodations for kids that require any kind of learning support. Some of them do have programs though, so we’ll see what we can come up with.
They’re quite strict on vehicle inspections…especially on cars that are over eight years old. Mine would be 11 when we arrive. I’ve recently replaced the headlights (grrr), and the windshield has a few chips in it that may or may not pass inspection. If I am ever to buy a new car, it would be smart to do it while we’re in the US and I can trade in my vehicle, but it only has 60,000 miles and is still in pretty good shape mechanically. So that’s another big decision (and expense) I get to make.
I get to use my bad tourist French! I have a French degree from 1994, studied it on and off for seven years between high school and college, and spent a year in the country. It’s been so long that I’m still nervous to speak in the presence of others, but I am looking forward to using it again…and not actually being graded on it! I like to think it will be in pretty good form by the time we leave post though.
And of course there is the French food, and the snow in winter, and the mountains (Matterhorn!) and lakes, and Christmas markets, and castles. I never think of Switzerland when I think of castles, but they have some great ones! I’ve also come across a few fun things that I can’t wait to check out…like the HR Giger Museum in Gruyères, the Ice Palace in Fieschertal, the Large Hadron Collider in Geneva, and the Glacier Express train…and all the great travel opportunities to neighboring countries.
Sometimes it is hard to live in the moment when you know what’s coming, but I will try. 🙂